My ex-wife she lives in woman shelter last 3 years after false Domestic Violence accusation. Our 6 years old son lives with her .I lost my visitation after she claimed that our son acting up after his visits with me,because her claims the court ordered me 4 monitored visits on 8/12 we had 2 hours monitored visits and on 8/14 the shelter reporting to court “That he start acting up because the visit??”
it got worse between the mother and son he hits her with her purse and she got angry and hits him this in front other people and I do not know what happen when they are alone . We got separated because she was always hitting him and I was got angry on her . I am parenting coach and I do not believe in hitting because you are teaching the child hitting is OK if you got angry how come so called victim hitting the child while me I never hit him. Our son told CPS and police that mom she hits him and dad never hits him . Now she is blaming me to what happen because the monitored visitation . My visit is going to be restore sadly she has his custody
Yes she is in shelter for 3 years and she gets free attorney and free place to stay and she does not speak English and free interpret, free personal assistant, There is no restraining orders and tax payers are paying for all this
I'm sorry I do not believe a word of this post. First of all a woman can not live in a shelter for 3 years. She would have been given about 2 months to get her life together and then would have been told to leave. No shelter would allow a parent to hit a child.
Troll alert!!!!!
It's very hard to lose parental custody in CA... #notbuyingit
OK, your post is very confusing. And I don't understand what you mean by saying you are a "parenting life coach" who "believes in hitting." For someone stating that they are a parenting life coach, your English skills are very poor. I could understand if English is not your primary language, but in your post you come off as uneducated, and you don't say why your ex-wife has had to go live in a women's shelter for the past 3 years in the first place. Maybe your son is acting up because of what he has witnessed from those around him, and the stress that he is feeling - living in a women's shelter with his mother for 3 years doesn't sound very stable to me. Perhaps you should be talking to an attorney, if possible, or someone from Legal Aide. You've had some other posts on here describing similar situations but I get the feeling it's not the whole story.
Why would the court want a child to grow up in a shelter with someone who is physically abusive? Sounds like there may be more to the story.
all of 'his' post are hard to read, all the way back to april '11 when his 'son' was first injured in a woman's shelter by his 'wife'.
not sure where to go with this one.....
talk to a lawyer..today!!!
get all of her medical/mental problems etc. records and forward them to a lawyer..today!! every day that this woman has custody is another day that this child is hurt by her ! if the child has EVER been seen by a doctor after she hit him, get the medical records and forward them to a lawyer. if she has EVER publicly claimed you hit the child after she herself hit the child, find your witnesses and get sworn statements!! its one thing to swat a childs hand when they reach for a poisonous spider( my daughter did this just last week!), its quite another to hit a child a then blame the other parent because you dont want them to get custody. she is living in a shelter with the child, hits him, and STILL thinks the child is better off with HER ???someone please bring me some coffee and give this woman a reality check!!
K. h.
if she has ever been hospitilized for
Sam, I'm sorry, your question is hard to understand. A lot of errors in wording and grammar.
I hope you don't believe in hitting -- I assume that was an error.
If you are a good and loving dad to your son, and keep trying, eventually you will be in his life. Just continue to do the right thing, and fight for your son. Your son needs a dad who is loving and present, and pays attention to him.
I agree with Reverendruby. Also you still have not clarified why she went to live in a shelter the first place?? Perhaps since you believe in hitting you beat both you son and you wife?? If that was the case then you child is mimicking your behavior. I find it hard to believe this post and even more to believe that a shelter with social workers and qualified staff have witnessed her hitting your son and have done nothing about it.
