My Baby Is Very Agitated, Caughing, Grunting While Feeding and Buping

Updated on January 27, 2016
J.A. asks from Voorhees, NJ
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Could anybody help me?

My baby is presenting problems while feeding him by bottle and breastfeed, we spent almost one hour feeding him due to getting every time asphyxia and sometimes choking and not responding, I have to take him up and down to return back his breathing, as well as when I am feeding him he will normally make sounds as grunting or screaming and getting red like if something is bothering him inside to pass the food, he almost every time swallows the food in a very rude way and when he finally pass his stomach will immediately sounds a lot, after that he will have gas with only one once of milk finished and that will not let him continuous eating as the gas inside his stomach is pushing up and down to burp; to burp is the biggest challenge he gets more asphyxia and it may takes long time, he cries since he is not able to pass more food because of the gas and he is so hungry but we cannot give him more until he burps and that reduce the asphyxia to allow him to pass food, also he is having around five burps during and after feeding and while sleeping time, also for this we have to be checking as he may get choking or asphyxia I guess for some gas still inside, he is having constipation every time he wants to pass stool, the color of his poop is dark green few times with little yellow and the form is like a past, other typical situation is when he sleeps he normally breaths strongly and his rate keeps speeding up until he makes a big sigh that brings the rate down for a minutes but he starts up again all this leaves him with only a half an hour good sleep after feeding and many hours of complaints restless and tiredness, It is not easy to take videos since when this situations happens are emergencies to sort out anyhow I’d take some videos and showed to the doctor but not enough effective for him to see the symptoms he said some agitation it is normal in newborn babies and that the videos were to long to watch, I don’t know what to do, I don’t have sources to pay a different doctor than the one provided by the insurance company, but I would like to know of every suggestions or similar cases so that if I have to spent money I will go straight to the tests that he needs or at least I have more idea of what is going on with him.

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D.C.

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Please get him back to a Dr. if you think he is having trouble breathing! Go when the baby is hungry and feed him right there in front of the Dr. and show him what's happening.

Some other ideas: You have a fast/forceful letdown. Make sure he is not laying down and nursing, but try to keep him verticle so that gravity isn't causing the milk to come out even faster. Please check out this website and see if it describes your baby: <http://www.kellymom.com/bf/supply/fast-letdown.html&gt;. If you are pumping and feeding from bottles, make sure you are using very slow nipples, or even try a different bottle type with a slower nipple and again, make sure he's not lying down to drink from the bottle.

Another clue is the green diaper. There are 2 classic causes for this. You have an oversupply problem (this often goes hand-in-hand with the fast letdown of milk), and your baby is getting all foremilk and not hindmilk. The imbalance can cause a lot of gas, causing agitation, etc. The kellymom.com site above has tips for this too.

A second cause of green diapers is a food allergy - often dairy. Try cutting milk products out of your diet and see if that helps. A food allergy can go hand-in-hand with reflux, which several others have mentioned.

Really sounds like a forceful letdown/oversupply issue to me. If you want personal tips on this, message me.

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R.K.

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This is very concerning. You need more medical advice. Go back to the doctor or possibly to a pediatric GI doc. I don't think this can be solved with advice on this board. I think you need a doctor right away.

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R.K.

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This I your baby! Cost does not matter! Get him to a doctor now! A baby should not stop breathing while eating! You should not be going by what strangers on the Internet say you need a doctor.

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A.O.

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It sounds like he has reflux. You need to keep him up right after ALL feeding for at least 30 minutes and get a Dr appt asap.

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P.B.

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Oh dear, it's terrible to read, I can't imagine how awful it is to watch all this happening to a baby...poor little sweetie! Run to the doctor, asphixia is NOT normal. If you were exclusively breastfeeding I would have mentioned that milk may go in his throat too fast (happened to my baby) but from the bottle..I don't think so. Go to the doc and get him checked so he can feel better asap! Good luck

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E.2.

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I soothed my similar behaving baby by giving him babies magic tea. I also used to drink this tea to pass its contents through my milk supply.

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J.J.

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If his breathing is really stopping, then he needs to be seen by a Dr. asap. Tell the Dr. how serious it is. It could be something like reflux where you will need to take the baby to pediatric GI. My daughter had severe reflux, she did much better with breastfeeding then the bottle, since the bottle made her more gassy and the reflux worse. But it could also be something else. He needs to be checked out immediately, and I would take him back to the Dr and demand they do something. Make it very clear to them that this is an emergency and you will not sit by and watch your child suffer. sometimes you need to be pushy with Dr.s to get the help for your child since a baby can't speak for themselves, and sometimes Dr.s don't take things as serious as they should. Of course many new parents worry about everything and so that makes it difficult for them to sort what needs further evaluation and what is just normal worry. So as a parent if you know something is not right, fight for more help. It sounds like this is a very serious problem, and you should call right away for an appointment. I hope you get the help you need for your baby. Some tips if it is reflux, I had to feed my daughter with her sitting almost upright, and then keep her upright for an hour after feeding. I had to burp her a lot during feedings, and had to feed her before she got too hungry as that made the problem worse. I would watch the clock and then nurse her before she was acting hungry. Waking her to feed her if needed. She was also put on meds which didn't help much until she was older. Was suggested to use cereal in bottle which made it worse. The best help was feeding her before she was super hungry and burping a lot during feeding and upright after feedings and then tummy rubs later to relieve gas. But none of this will help if it is someo other problem. Please take him back to the Dr.

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