My 4 Month Old Wakes up and Plays

Updated on September 17, 2008
R.C. asks from Dolphin, VA
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I have tried adding rice to her formula and all sorts of things like sleeping her late, letting her cry, sitting by her crib, and she will wake up at 4 to 6 in the morning and just talk and talk until she gets tired and starts crying. Once she does start to cry though she will cry for a long time more than she would if I would have picked her up from the beginning. I dont know what else to do, she was a really colicky baby and has been a lil grouchy since she was born. I love her soooooo much but I think my child was born with an attitude... =).

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B.H.

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Hi R.,

Your baby is only four months old. It isn't very likely that a pattern for sleep will develop at this stage or stick if it does develop. 4 month olds are notoriously very distractible, because they are really just starting to become truly aware of their surroundings and they are very, very curious creatures! Waking in the night and wanting to see the world is perfectly normal. Your baby doesn't know that people sleep at night and are awake during the day yet. Just pick a routine, like picking up and soothing and stick with it. Like you said, letting her cry will likely work against you, and she would sleep faster if you picked her up and soothed her.
No worries, your child wasn't born with an attitude, she was just born a newborn. They have to figure this stuff out as it comes, just like we do really!! :)

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A.G.

answers from Norfolk on

just a thought, but could you be putting her to bed too early in the evening? you didn't mention what time she goes down at night so maybe consider that. My oldest took a couple years before she slept through the night and has always been an "early bird". i don't see a problem with you picking her up in the morning. could she be hungry? maybe give her a bottle and put her back down. at her age it all sounds pretty normal. just be patient and play with her sleep schedule and eating schedule to find what works. good luck!!

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K.F.

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My 6-month old wakes up at times during the night still. The truth is, "sleeping through the night" for babies means sleeping for about six or more hours in a row. If you're baby is sleeping for six hours or more before waking, she's doing eactly what she should be doing. Yes, it's an inconvenience to us mothers, but it will get better as they get older.

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S.T.

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hi R., babies go through phases, and just as you adjust to one, they switch on you. at only 4 months it's a long shot that she'd sleep through the night anyway. i honestly would not stress myself over how to 'fix' this. by the time you settle on a fix, new phase will move in. let her wake up and play and talk. that's a GREAT skill for a little one to have! you will be doing her(and yourself) a big favor by letting her develop that. when she's ready for you, she cries for you, and you get her then. if she cries longer than she would have, well, you got the extra sleep on the happy-talking end of it all.
good luck!
:) khairete
S.

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S.B.

answers from Richmond on

google or read about the 4 month wakeful period. sounds like your daughter is right in the thick of it!

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S.W.

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Hi R.,

I belong to an email list of mom's that have been discussing this very issue and how it relates to food intolerances. I am going to cut and paste a part of that discussion for you. Hope it helps!
Take care, S.

My older son has dairy, wheat, sugar, and yeast issues ­ and blood tests
never picked them up. They might for you, since she has hives as a
reaction. His are behavioral/sleep things. I learned about a saliva test
that can test for intolerances AND allergies, and I was blown away. It was
the answers we¹d been looking for. The naturopath who does them is out of
GA, and a number of moms on our list have used her. You wet Qtips with
saliva and send them back to her and she¹s able to analyze it that way. Same
science of blood in many ways, but even more expansive ­ because it can pick
up intolerances and not just ³true² allergies.

Here¹s her contact info and I¹m sure she¹d welcome any questions. If you
have any for me, just let me know!

Darlene Betsill
###-###-####
Natural Health Research and Consulting
167 Wentworth Way
Griffin, GA 30224

And here¹s a writeup that discusses the science behind saliva:

Why is saliva used in our testing? While mostly water, saliva contains
electrolytes, buffers, antibodies, hormones, enzymes, sugar-coated molecules
known as mucin, proteins, and a host of minerals. The elements found in
blood that can be tested can also be tested on saliva. It, too, is like a
blue-print of the body on a cellular level. These facts were referred to in
an article that appeared in the Health/Science section of the Boston Globe
on March 04, 2003. Stated in part in her article: ³Saliva Offers a Mouthful
of Promising Science², Vivien Marx notes:

...biomedical researchers are finding that this bodily secretion offers a
mouthful of promising science. Last month, some of these scientists
presented their newest work at the Gordon Research Conference and Symposium
on Salivary Glands and Saliva in Ventura, Calif.

Lawrence Tabak is the director of the National Institute of Dental and
Craniofacial Research, part of the National Institute of Health. He is also
a diabetic and has pricked his finger more often than he would like to
count. He envisions a device so small that it could be integrated into a
tooth and would use saliva to monitor his blood sugar level. What sounds
perhaps like science fiction is actually a research program involving
several universities around the country to develop lab-on-a-chip technology
for salival diagnostic tests.

³Anything you can measure in blood² Tabak explained, ³you can figure out how
to measure in saliva.² Collecting saliva samples is much less invasive and
it might lower people¹s fears about going to the doctor, he said ²These
methods hold tremendous promise.²

For example, at the University of Mississippi Medical Center in Jackson,
Charles F. Streckfus and his colleagues are working on various ways to
compare saliva in healthy and cancer patients. One saliva test he is working
on measures levels of HER2/neu protein, which is important in normal cell
growth, but is overproduced in aggressive breast cancer cells. These
elevated HER2/neu levels can be detected in saliva, and research shows this
test can potentially reduce the number of false positives and negatives in
breast cancer detection. The test also offers a noninvasive way to see how a
treatment regiment is working.

Saliva can deliver insights into the body¹s immune response, Joe A. Bosch of
Ohio state University stated in the International Review of Neurology.
Intrigued by the connection between stress, periodontal diseases, and
impaired wound healing, he looked at variations in the level of an antibody
called Immunoglobin A, or IgA in saliva.

With all it has to offer biomedical research, saliva is currently garnering
more respect than ridicule.

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D.J.

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What time are you putting her to bed? Some babies need less sleep than others. Try putting her to bed later. Slowly shift the schedule, though. Maybe 1/2 hour at a time.

Also some kids sleep better than others. My son usually goes through a spell of light sleep where even light sounds can wake him up about that time in the morning. He is 2 yrs 4 months.

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K.L.

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I just wanted to let you know you are not alone! My son has been a great sleeper from the start. Our first night home he slept 6 hours overnight. He has gone as L. as 10 hours without waking. (this is all with the exception of when he was having serious weight loss problems because of severe reflux and we had to wake him to feed him overnight)

Now, he will be 4 months next week and 3 of the past 4 nights he has woken up around 3AM with a HUGE smile on his face. He's so darn cute that it makes me smile. We keep it dark and quiet, if hubby and I talk we whisper and we do our best to soothe Cody back to sleep. It took 90 mins yesterday!

Its caused by the fact that they are growing and developing so fast that they want to have that stimulation. The other problem can be overstimulation causes them to not be able to rest enough.

I know it can be reassuring to know that you are not the only one going through this!

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