My 2.5 Year Old Son with Eye Gazing and Odd Arm and Finger Movement

Updated on July 13, 2008
K.W. asks from Auburn, CA
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Hi All, We have been noticing odd behavior in our 2.5 year old son over the past few months. Right before bed he sometimes will kind of gaze off and his arms and fingers will start moving in front of him at random, kind if like how an infant will move sporadically. This lasts anywhere from 10 seconds to 1 minute. During this time he doesn't respond to a hand waving in front of him or when we call his name. We thought this was just his energy coming out at the end of the day before drifting off to sleep. However, I noticed the same thing about 1/2 hour after waking this morning. He is fine and normal before and after this happens. It has us very concerned and I have a call into the doc already, just waiting to hear back. Does anyone have knowledge of similar behavior or heard of anything like this? Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

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First, thank you all for your responses. I have done what was suggested. We took our son to see the pediatrician, with reliable research and video camera in hand showing what we were seeing. Doc said from our description it sounded like "complex seizures." We were told that if it was seizures, they are treatable and some kids take meds, if even for a short time, and it is manageable. We had an EEG done (in the neurology dept)which measured brain activity. This was painless, but required that he be asleep, so I kept him up late the night before and woke him up early in the morning to be assured my "no-napper child" would sleep. The entire process lasted about 1 hour. A few days later our pediatrician said that the pediatric neurologist read the EEG and it was totally normal for our son's age. This was a relief! These results, coupled with no more gazing since we saw the doc initially (go figure), made us feel like maybe it was a "phase" and not neurological after all. I also asked the doctor to have our son evaluated for autism to rule it out. I received the questionnaire and once returned to the doc to be scored by an NP, I will be notified of the results. I think we were lucky that what we were seeing turned out to be nothing, but I hope this helps as an avenue for other parents experiencing the same thing. Thank you again to all the other moms who responded so graciously with their experiences and thoughts - good luck to all of you too!

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M.S.

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Sounds like you should get him in to see the pediatrician right away. Videotape the behavior, and note how long it has been going on. This way the doctor cannot dispute what you are seeing. He really should be seen by a pediatric neurologist. He may be having seizure activity.

The videotape of the behavior is key, otherwise they may try to talk you out of what you are seeing. It is better to be safe and have the neurologist rule anything out.

Blessings.

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M.S.

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K. W,

That sounds really scary! I would tape your son doing this and then contact a neurologist asap for an evaluation. Good luck and I hope that its nothing to worry about.

Molly

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C.S.

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I agree that it does sounds seizure like. I would definitely have him evaluated by your Pediatricain and also a specialist. Just to be on the safe side. The video tape thing is a great idea. Good luck.

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K.L.

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Sounds very much like a seizure - Im a special education teacher and child psychologist, and have dealt with seizures that present in a multitude of different ways. This behavior is not normal, and very suspect - even if it isn't a seizure, something neurological is most certainly going on (it could be anything from brain chemistry thing to a glandular problem). Whatever the problem may be, and I would get him an appointment RIGHT AWAY with your ped - and stress how much of an emergency the situation is to the receptionist/nurse/doctor so that they don't put you off as just another anxious mother. I would suggest you not take him JUST to the pediatrician, but have your ped refer you to a pediatric neurologist - in cases such as this, a second opinion from a very specifically trained professional is necessary. Often pediatricians do not have the in depth and specialty training to deal with neurological issues.

I don't know if you are local, but Lucile Packard Children's Hospital and Stanford has an AMAZING pediatric neurological department - if your medical insurance allows, I would ask specifically for a referral to a doctor there before anyone else. I did some of my training/masters studies/psych internship there and can vouch for the above and beyond excellence of their doctors and staff.

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J.Y.

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I thought of seizures, (which my daughter has but hers are grand mal so she actually convulses and loses consciousness, very scary!!)so I am a bit familiar with them, but I also thought of autism. I hope that doesn't scare you too much and I could be very wrong but I worked with kids with autism and one boy about your child's age started off by doing that sort of thing. He would also take off his shoes repeatedly. Autism can be very mild or debilitating. It sounds like if it is autism, your son may have a very mild case and now is a great time for intervention.

Isn't it scary being a parent?! I agree to videotape the behavior and see your pediatrician right away. Good luck to you and I hope it all turns out okay for both of you.

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