S.L.
Hey J.,
I am a family therapist and have treated several situations like yours. The medications for ADHD are known to cause ticks and at times emotional outburst. In all acutuality the medication maybe doing more harm then good. It might be a good idea to get a second opinion about the medication. Also his counselor is absolutely right about holding him accountable for his actions. I think that you need to get him involved with something that he is good at doing to help build his self esteem. Even if he is reluctant at first he will soon start enjoying it when he sees that this is something that he is good at and he can see his accomplishments. One way that you can handle the crying is just walk away and not pay him any attention when he is crying but as soon as he stops crying tend to the reason he was crying. I hope this helps. It is hard to give advice when I not know the family dynamics. Good luck...