J.G.
sounds familiar...our problem was the detergent. It is hard to find a detergent that my son's skin could handle and that got the stains of 3 kids out and keep the clothes clean and fresh...I have come to use (and love) something called SA8 detergent. If you wanted to try it I would be happy to "mail" some LOL it is the BEST I have EVER tried. If you want some let me know I will tell you how to go about ordering it
J