C.C.
Bless you heart. I know exactly what you're going through. I'm sure you're husband is wonderful, but in this one area, he needs to realize that YOU are the #1 woman in his life now and he has to do what is best for his family. I don't think you're being unreasonable at all, and I think it might be a good idea for you to let your husband read all of these posts. Like I said, I totally understand. My mil is very controlling and also VERY annoying. Thank God she doesn't live here. Hang in there, and if you ever need to vent, you can vent to me!!