Hi S. C!
I hear you, sister! Had 4 children. First was a breeze, with the second I was sick all day and with the twins I had to go to the hospital on IV I was so dehydrated. Had I known about hormones and how wacky they can get I would have made sure I was using the natural progesterone cream that I use now. You can use it while you are nursing. Anyway, I teach on this also and if you want more info you can contact me. But to help with your nausea, try these things: (found these while googling natural remedy for morning sickness)
Ø Get plenty of rest. (YEA, RIGHT!)
Ø Chew your food thoroughly.
Ø Make sure your stomach is never completely empty. Carry fruit, cheese and/or crackers around with you to nibble on throughout the day.
Ø Keep a snack by the bed for when you get up during the night to visit the bathroom or soothe one of the kids.
Ø Also keep a snack by the bed to eat before you lift your head from the pillow in the morning. Then, get up slowly.
Ø Eat a high protein snack before bed at night.
Ø Eat a diet high in carbohydrates and protein, low in fats.
Ø Eat salty, crunchy foods.
Ø Sniff a fresh lemon peel.
Ø Make sure your breads and crackers are whole grain.
Ø Drink wheat germ dissolved in warm milk, a few teaspoons every hour.
Ø Take 1 tablespoon of apple cider vinegar and 1 tablespoon honey in cold water before bed.
Ø Avoid strong odors and stuffy or smoky rooms.
Ø Suck a piece of peeled ginger root.
Ø Drink red raspberry leaf, peppermint, squaw vine or spearmint tea.
Ø Drink ginger tea made by boiling some ginger root in water. Strain it and add honey to sweeten.
Ø Wear motion sickness bands on your wrists.
Ø To avoid actually vomiting, try grasping your tongue with a piece of cloth and pulling gently but firmly.
Ø If you are vomiting a lot, try limiting your diet to a single food, one that you know you can tolerate. Add one additional food per day as you can tolerate them.
Ø Put three drops of lavender essential oil and one of peppermint in a diffuser or humidifier to scent the air.
Ø Place a cool lavender scented compress on your forehead and a warm lavender compress over your rib cage.
Ø Get a massage with chamomile massage oil.
Ø Drink liquids between rather than with meals.
Ø Avoid greasy foods.
Ø Snack on ginger snap cookies, homemade and with real ginger, if possible.
Ø Chew gum.
Ø Get regular, gentle exercise.
Ø Increase your intake of vitamin B6.
Ø Try taking your vitamins later in the day.
Ø Try changing your iron supplement.
Ø Give in to your food cravings.
Ø Sip a carbonated beverage.
Ø Get plenty of fresh air.
Ø Try tart flavors; lemonade, sour pickles, etc.
Ø Don’t brush your teeth immediately after eating.
Ø Lie completely still with your eyes closed.
Ø Suck on frozen popsicles, especially lemonade.
The reason I felt compelled to respond to you was that you mentioned you were a help meet to your husband. I also am a help meet to my husband of 16 years and still gather with my friends every summer to do Bible study using Pearl's books. Still learning to be a better help meet. It can be quite challenging but we can do all things through He who strengthens us. Take care and hope this helps you!
L. O