Time for another!
I think my "sadness" about my first baby getting older lessened a) when I had my second baby and b) when I realized how absolutely wonderful it is to have someone who can dress themselves, feed themselves, wipe their own butt and entertain themselves. I am getting to focus on other things in addition to enjoying my kids, whereas before, the entire focus had to be on them, as they needed M. ALL the time (not bad, just reality!)
Start to renew your sense of happiness in other things, including yourself. Moms are so guilty (and we SHOULD do this) of throwing ourselves into our kids and forgetting about us and our husbands. Go get a pedicure, read a book, join a club, take a class!
You will relish those days of babyhood - but trust M., when you and your husband are sitting quietly at dinner with a glass of wine in hand, no baby yelling at you, you will think, hey, I could get used to this!
I had to stop nursing when my son was 13 months, and I was mortified. But, he must grow up, and no amount of sadness I feel will change that, so I must be happy!
- Mom to 7 year old and 14 month old, so I know how you feel!!!