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What theme are you going with? I have an online party favor business, www.favoroo.com, and I can make custom favors, too. So, if you have a certain theme in mind, I can brainstorm on some favors. :)
A friend of mine does GREAT invitations for great prices: www.craftylilmomma.com. She just finished these AWESOME "Breakfast at Tiffany's" Bridal Shower invites that I am IN LOVE with. lol (You can see these on her MySpace pics page at: www.myspace.com/craftylilmomma.)
As far as DJs go, I know someone who is a DJ, but I don't know what he charges. Decorations are so much fun!
I'm looking forward to seeing what your theme is.
(I'll edit my response afterward to reflect it, since we can't reply twice. :D )