oh, where to begin...LOL! Since my baby STILL wakes up between 3 and 4 times a night at 12 months old, my BIGGEST wish to maintain my sanity and happiness right now would be a nice, long, uninterrupted stretch of sleep. More practically, I make a point to simply get out of the house, alone, everyday. My husband knows I'm a much better mom and wife if he watches our baby even for 45 minutes so I can take a power walk, talk with a friend, shop, etc...whatever it is I need to do. I also make sure to find a time when he's home to shower or bathe. I fill the tub with bubbles, and sometimes light a candle, bring a cup of tea in the bathroom, or a book, and just relax for 30 minutes. :) Sometimes, I bake as a way to relax...I like the creative process of mixing ingredients and having a finished product 30 minutes later (plus, a warm, gooey brownie tends to make everything feel a bit better. :))