K.B.
I don't have much personal advice,but I have a strong willed 6 year old boy.I have been reading everything there is on strong willed children and how to deal with them.Parent's that do not have any do not understand.All the books say that they think different,have a problem being told what to do. They want to be in control and want to come up with an idea or outcome to a situation on their own.One of the best things so far I 've used is when wanting him to do something put the word o.k.? behind it.
for instance, At bath time we have a hard time getting him out of it,so if it goes like this "it's time to get out" NO!It's bedtime you have to get out now,NO! "How about you can play for 3 more minutes and then it's time to get out o.k.? yes sir. Kinda hard to explain but it works for us
We are still learning,but the library has a lot of books on this.It also helps that I have a friend who has a strong willed boy,so she get's what I deal with.Not much help,but might help with the books,,good luck,keep me posted,maybe we can share ideas.