Miscarriage - Butte,MT

I have an interesting tidbit to share with you....

I was that "Baby A" born to my mother and "Baby B" did NOT make it. After my parents shared the news with me many years later, I actually had a dream about being in utero and saying good-bye to my twin sister. I was so sad to be "alone" in the womb, but knew it was not my sister's time to be born.

My mother gave birth to another girl two years later. My sister and I always joke that she was my long lost twin who just wasn't ready to come to earth when I was. Of course, this is all just our surmising, but it is interesting to think about. Just a commentary I guess on how things always seem to work out for a reason, although we rarely know why at the time...

Best of luck with Baby A. You never know, perhaps Baby B is yet to come!

Not that this makes it easier but this happened to us with our last one. Our doctor called it the invisible twin. It happens quite often but often times people don't know that they have two until the second one has already been absorbed.
Hang in there, grieve as long as you need but rejoice too that you have one striving and healthy one.
You are not alone! Although I know it does not make it any easier.

So sorry for your loss! It's a heart wrenching thing, but you will get through it. (I lost 3 children to miscarriage - you'll never forget your baby.) Cling to each other and never let anyone tell you not to grieve! You and your thriving little one will be in my prayers. May God grant you peace!

oh i'm so sorry.
and no you are not alone in this pain.
my ex husband and i went thru 6 miscarriages, the last one with triplets. one did pass around week 9.. and they said the other two would absorbe the other matter and it wouldn't harm the other two.
it's a bitter sweet feeling i'm sure now for you, knowing one is lost but you want to feel happy for the life of the other one. it's ok to feel sad for the one and also it's ok to feel happy for the other one.. you won't be disrespecting the lost one by being happy.. :-)

{HUGS}}

Hi, Sorry to hear about your loss. I've been through it myself, so I completely understand. I will be praying for you and baby A as you continue to get bigger and she gets bigger. Dont be afraid to ask for help about anything:-)

I'm so sorry about your loss. ~hugs~
Your in my prayers.

I am so sorry for your loss! I will be praying all goes well for baby A!

Blessings to you and your husband!

K.
I'm so sorry you lost one of your babies ! I also when I was 19 was caring twins and experienced a misscarraige when I was 8 wks along in my pregnancy , the other twin .she is now going on 17 and what a beautiful young lady she's become . and she was also 7 1/2 wks premature. she and her 10 yr old sister are my MIRACLES from God . I also had 4 more missariages after that and 1 daughter stillborn at 7 months pregnant and 1 premature daughter at 5 months pregnant and died 2 minutes later after birth due to heart trouble and etc. YOUR BABY IS SAFE IN THE ARMS OF jESUS IN HEAVEN . mINE ARE TOO .
I pray that you will have a happy healthy baby .
C. N

Dear K.,
I am so sorry for your loss! I have no idea what you are feeling right now so I hope I don't overstep a boundary. You must have such mixed emotions. Don't feel guilty for grieving hard over your baby even though you are rejoicing over Baby A. I don't know if this something you would like to do but when my sister had a miscarriage she and her husband bought a "mother and child" necklace so that her baby could be close to her heart. I believe that your baby is in heaven but it is nice to have a tangible reminder of your baby. I think you can buy them at any jewelry store.
I pray for a safe pregnancy for you and lots of joy to come!

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and both your babies will be in my prayers.

I am so sorry for your loss. Congrats on the baby due in July. Do you know what you are having?

Dear K.,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. My husband and I lost our first baby after only knowing we were pregnant for 3 days. Although we only knew for a very short time, it was still very difficult to deal with. Time does help, but you will never forget. Rely on each other and tell each other how you are feeling. Sometimes we keep our emotions all bottled up instead of dealing with them. I wish you all the best and remember all things happen for a reason! God Bless! XOXO K.