E.J.
I am so sorry to hear about your suffering. I know exactly how you feel. I went through the same thing after having my third child. It started about five months after she was born. I suffered for three years before seeking help from a GYN. Thankfully I was working for a Women's hospital at the time and was referred to a great doctor who recommended that I have an endometrial ablation. This is a procedure that removes the lining of your uterus that sheds each month and causes the heavy bleeding. However, this procedure is only recommended for women who do not plan on having any more children. Since the lining of your uterus will be removed if you were to get pregnant the fetus would not have anything to attach to. The procedure is much less invasive than having a hysterectomy. Most women have very little to no discomfort after the procedure. I, on the other hand felt like I was in labor all night after the procedure. But, the next day I was fine and it was so worth it. My quality of life improved immediately. Now, I do not have a period at all. NO BLEEDING. I can usually tell when I would have been menstruating because I sometimes will get mild cramps -- but that is it. My advice to you is to talk to your doctor about the procedure to see if it is right for you. There is also some testing that needs to be done if you decide to have the procedure. Best of luck to you!