K.B.
L.
Keep the communication open with your daughter. Let the girls in the neighborhood see that you are there watching.Perhaps you could engage in conversations with the girls and they would see you as a friend, not someone who has a daughter they can manipulate. If you plan to stay in this neighborhood, it would be best for you to get to know them, rather than ignore them. As for your daughter, I gave the same advise to my son...to ignore the mean boys & girls. I wish I would have invited them over to our house instead. My son is still being used in situations. Remember the commercial..."Let's get Mikey...?" Unfortuneately my son wants to fit in so bad, he keeps getting involved. He ends up hurt because even though he does things for the attention, they don't include him in their circle of friends,just their mind games. The hardest part is that when you work full time, it is difficult to be involved enough to see what really goes on. My son also went to before and after school care and summer programs. He is now too old to attend these and he still has to go out of the neighborhood to make friends. Good Luck! K. B