C.D.
Good Luck Richard! You'll always be tired but there are ways to not feel tired, a little depressed and penned in. First of all, I hope the kids take a nap during the day. If they do, don't try and run around while they are sleeping, take 20 minutes lay down and completely let everything go. Since they are gettting a little older get a video of a fun work out, like dancing to the oldies, or something that they can do with you. You can do a full work out and they can pretend to be working out with you. Men need to get their hormones going or they can fall into a depression so do some work out. I have a 14 year old boy who is in highschool. Three times a week he goes over to a friend of mines house and takes her two toddlers to the park. He's happy because he gets paid a couple of dollars and she is thrilled because she goes and plays tennis for a couple of hours. So find a neighborhood kid that wants some spending money and go play basketball or jog. You would be surprised how much energy you get when you work out. You would think you would be more tired but you feel like you can concur the world. You have to do something for yourself or you will get very frustrated. So what if the house isn't clean or the kids look a little dirty, if you are happy they will be happy. Oh by the way, get a sitter instead of going out and leaving your wife at home to watch the kids. She works hard too and you should spend time together. Marriages last when couples do things together more then apart. If you work out you will have the energy to do both.