Hi mamas! This is kind of a petty question but I cant decide what 2 do! My twin sister and I usually go 2 her hair dresser and get our hair done together especially for our bday. My problem is I want and need to get my hair done again but I cant afford to pay for both of us. She just quit her job so she obviously dont have the money. Do I make my own appt and not tell her or jus wait till I can afford to take us both? Help!
Thank u so much as always for taking the time to read my question and offer advice! I asked her if it would hurt her and she said no. I know by the tone in her voice she was dissappointed (yet shes gone without me many times b4). Im going 2 do it! I need 2 feel better! Thank u mommies!
Ask her about it. Don't assume she obviously doesn't have the money. And don't go behind her back. That is how trust is broken. Be honest with her about what you want and what you're able to pay or not pay.
"Honesty is the best policy."
I agree w/ being straight with her. Just ask her how she wants to handle it since you can only afford your own.
I think you should be straight with her. Ask her what she wants to do about your yearly hair date and mention that you're low on funds and she just lost her job...?? Tell her you'd love to do it together but you can only swing yourself right now and ask her opinion. If she can't afford it then just ask if she minds if you go by yourself. She may be bummed that she can't go, but I'm sure she'll understand.
Would it hurt her feelings to have you go without her? I figure that you can go on your own but if you guys always do this together, then her feelings might be hurt. Ask her if she minds if you go this once without her because you don't have enough money. Good luck!
