C.M.
C.,
We took our daughters last november to Mexico, I also bought a DVD with headphones, but at the end we didn't use them.
The noise on the airplane allows you to use the DVD with out them. My daughters were 2 and 3 1/2, and they didn't like the idea of the headphones.
As for the Disney question, we are thinking also to take our daughters this coming september, they'll be almost 3 and 4 1/2. I've heard they enjoy it a lot regardless their age, and if 2 year olds get in for free we better take advantage of that!
good luck,