First of all, congrads on the (soon to be 4 Year old!! Mine just turned 4 yesterday! :-) )
I had the low dose epidural, and loved it! I had started my labor at 10am on a saturday morning, contractions consistant at 15min apart lasting for about 15-30seconds. . . .we didnt go to the hospital until just after midnight when they hit 5 minutes apart for over an hour. (my husband is a fireman/paramedic, and we lived only minutes from the hospital, so we decided to do as much labor at home as possible) It was almost 4am (18 hours now of contractions) and they decided to give me patosin(sp?) to speed things up especialy since I had been steadily contracting for quite a while. That part sucked, and I could not breath between the contractions, and was seriously exahusted so I finaly decided to talk with the anesthesiologist becuase I had previously wanted to do a natural labor.
Though we had resurched all of our options before this, we still wanted to talk to him. He suggested "Staydol"(sp?) which he said was one of the few drugs that will NOT pass through the placenta to the baby, and it was wonderful.
I went ahead and got the Low dose epi after having the staydol and still contracting for quite a while, and LOVED IT!!! I could still move around, feel my legs, and my contractions, it just took the edge off of it all, and I could breath and relax between the contractions. It was a blessing that we decided to do the low dose because my son's head got stuck on my pelvis a few times while pushing, and I had to be able to move into other positions to see if we could get him unstuck. IF I had had the full epi, I would not have been able to do that, and would have had to of had a c-section. I was still in labor and pushing for quite a while, and the epi actualy wore off, so I was able to have a natural labor in the end, but the low dose epi was great to have because it took just enough of the edge off to allow me to be able to regain my energy and strength. (after contracting for so long durring the day and was exhausted. . . .my son was not born until 3:51pm on Sunday afternoon.. . . .that's 9 minutes shy of 30 hours.)
I would do it again in a heart beat, and if my husband and I are ever blessed with another child, I would do it again!
I loved still being able to have full control of my labor and be able to feel what was going on to fully experience bringing my son into the world. I was able to feel the contractions and feel that I was actualy pushing like I should and be an active part in the labor, but the sharp, stabbing, breath taking pains were not there.
Did it hurt?-Yes, I am not going to lie. There was still A LOT of pressure, and burning. At the very end of my labor when the epi wore off, it was more painfull, but not unbareable. It was NOT as if some one was riping me open or rippng me apart. But it was not comfortable either. Once he was here and the labor was over, all of the pain was gone for me. THe burning and pressure stopped and so did the contractions.
One of my best friends had a full epi and said that she could not feel any contractions at all, and never really experienced anything physicaly of bringing her daughter into the world, so I was thankfull that I could.
Good luck, I hope this helps you make your desission whether you choose one epi or the other. And congradulations on your new baby!
Be blessed!
p.s. Let us know how it all goes for you and your new baby!!