A.W.
I lost my dad at 19 and my mom when I was 27, 3 years ago. I have two brothers... One younger and one older. My older brother started disconnecting when my dad passed and then when my mom passed, he was out of there. He only lives a half hour away and its sad because my kids are his kids' only cousins but I only hear from him when I reach out. My younger brother and I were always close too but it seems that the glue that held us all together is just gone. It breaks my heart. My younger brother does come around from time to time when he needs something usually emotional support. In that way, I've almost become like a mom figure to him. My younger brother even had my older brother as his best man in his wedding this past July but after all the festivities and he did his part, barely anything from him since. even when i had surgery, i didnt hear a word. you would think after losing people, it would make you closer but in my situation it hasnt. i think about it every day especially with the holidays coming up and it saddens me. i hope your situation turns out differently than mine.. All you can do is keep reaching out. The rest is up to them. Hugs.