L.M.
Lauren, you might want to think of Oglebay Resort and Conference Center. They have a spa, fine dining and during sometime in November thru January they have the lights. My husband and I went there a year ago. We met my college roommate and her husband and had a great time. It is only 1 hour from Pittsburgh. My friend called and there was a special. Each couple got a pass to drive through and see the light display, Sunday buffet brunch and the room for Saturday night. (You could also buy a ticket and ride a bus through.) Their number is 800-624-6988. The weekend that so much fun (maybe part was because we were with old friends, but being alone with your husband might me fun too!!) Whatever you do, have a fun time!
L. M.