Hey -
I can't help you with your very specific question because I don't live in the area, but I can help you with some other thoughts. I am a single mother by choice, so my situation was different and unique from "couples" having a children:
1. I am not sure how you are going to tell about a doctor before YOU start seeing him/her. The best you can do is talk to other people and find out if they enjoy their doctor. I have two kids. For the first one (I lived in Virginia), I saw her for years as just my OB and she was "fine". But, as a pregnant person, I HATED her office. It was overcrowded and hot. When I sat there, pregnant, I thought I was going to die from the heat - something I never noticed just going in once a year. Plus, she was never on time. For once a year, again, I didn't mind a 30 minute to an hour wait. As a pregnant person, I just did not have the time for that. My second baby was born here in Texas and my OB was a DREAM. Their office was very air conditioned and I never waited anywhere for more than 5 minutes (in the waiting room or the office area).
2. For my first baby, I lived in Richmond and the fertility doctor was right there in Richmond. So, they had freezing/storage capabilities and everything was fine. For my second baby here in Texas, Tyler does NOT have anyone with the capability to freeze and store samples. So, I used a fertility specialist in Irving (Dr. Li - he was awesome) in conjunction with my doctor here in Tyler. And speaking of my doctor here in Tyler, she had a baby a couple of months before I got pregnant with my 2nd. She kept him on site and was actually breastfeeding him in her office when I came in to get the confirmation pregnancy test. This office had never worked with anyone in my situation before, so they were kind of excited about it. When I came in for the confirmation pregnancy test, the doc overheard me in the hallway and she came running out of her office (baby attached to breast) and asked if it had really worked and she was so excited for me. THAT'S exactly the kind of doctor I want.
3. you might ask about freezing/storage capability. I ordered 3 samples and had them stored on site at my fertility clinic because shipping is EXPENSIVE if you do it for each try (which you can do and avoid freezing, but you pay shipping costs every month).
4. Make sure you have all your legal paperwork in order (wills, living will etc). God forbid the person giving birth has difficulty, goes into a coma, etc, you want the other partner to have full rights and priveleges. The doctor and the hospital will each ask for copies of these documents. Apparently most regular couples don't have all this paperwork in order, the doctor and the nurse at the hospital were surprised that I had all of this paperwork - but it gave my parent's rights and privileges in case something happened to me during labor and delivery.
Inbox me if you have any questions about the process.
Good luck!
L.