L.S.
I've had a Toyota 4Runner for the last almost 4 years and love, love, love it. It has an optional 3rd row seat. I think this year's model got the highest safety rating. It drives like a car. It has a short front which makes it easy to zip in and out of parking spaces - great for when you're running errands. My 4-year old son and 7-year old nephew (both self-proclaimed car experts) both love my 4Runner too. Gas mileage is about 16 city 19 highway. I drive about 23,000 miles a year and it has not given me any problems whatsoever. It now has 85000+ miles on it, and still drives like the day I drove it off the lot.
Good luck!