hi L."
my name is sandy and i have three boys. a few years ago we were separated with my husband of twenty years.... so our youngest boy who was 9 at the time, got very upset with us and depressed. he also has some learning difficulties, and is gifted in social sciences at the same time...
we do not believe in pills, so i decided to look for alternatives, and i found reiky... acupuncture and chinese formulas like gui pi tang.... my son is happy and learning so much about himself now , that at school and at home he stands his ground, treats all his shortcomings with a positive attitude of is just a challenge, nothing i can not do.... it is great..
at home we always eat healthy, and he takes his lunch to school... because out of the three, he is the tallest and heavy set(bones), and the one that needs help doing homework,etc... the other two are extremely smart and also help him because he is the youngest...
hang in there, at home please have a positive attitude towards challenges, because we all have some lesson to learn all the time, and we do not have to rely on labels.... rather than focus on our strengths to make those challenges a stepping stone in our way to a happy path...
treat your son with love and a normality that he will not see his challenges as unsurmountable mountains.... he is 14 so he is also changing... how is he in sports? does he have a group of friends to share sports, sleep overs, go to park or burgers with?
we all need a social support that extends from our parents and family, so please look into his nutrition, exercise, friends, school work, tutors and mentors if he needs them.... as well as a strong family support that will not let him break at this challenge.... hang in there.... after every storm the sun is brighter and the light always gives us rainbows....
warmly,
sandy