S.T.
I'm not sure if he is retired or not, but Reverend Bless at the little German church in the German village in Huntington Beach (right behind the shopping center at Beach Blvd and the 405, was very helpful to us for our wedding and our daughter's wedding, since we didn't belong to a church. He has an office in the German village, and he was still there about 3 or 4 years ago. Although I'm sure you would need to pay something for the use of the church and his services, because it's his only way of making a living and keeping the church open, he appears to be a very modest man and not out to charge a lot for what he does. Just explain your circumstances.