K.
Hey C.. I'm so very sorry! I used to work for a divorce attorney in Litchfield County. Connecticut doesn't recognize the type of "abandonment" that Kay mentioned so if you have to go, go with no worries in that respect. As Kay said, get in touch with a lawyer. I can recommend several....feel free to pm me. With respect to a legal separation, the process in this state is exactly the same as a divorce so aside from financial and or tax reasons, there's no point going through all that without ending up divorced IMHO. The process isn't cheap and though it can be done without an attorney, it isn't recommended for people with children.