Ya know, when my son was 4'ish, he had NO INTEREST at all, in learning all those things. At all. Nor did he even want to write or read.
He attended a play based Preschool with a little "academics" of basics.
And it was pretty much, developmentally age appropriate.
I did not "push" him. At all. Nor about having to "learn" all that.
AND I consulted with my older child's Kindergarten teacher about it to see her thoughts, and she said "DON'T WORRY!" And I didn't. She also said do not compare, your kid with others. Which I didn't anyway.
My son, only attended Preschool for about 6 months, then went to Kindergarten at 4 years old and then turned 5, after that.
And in Kindergarten, he did just FINE, per academics.
He really just took off, with learning and his academic skills and aptitude... naturally. And developmentally he was on, par. And all on his own and naturally, he learned a TON... and could count up to 100, and knew all his ABC's and MUCH more.
A kid using tech things to "learn" is not "better" than yours.
The tech devices do not make or break a kid's learning, ability.
A kid may learn, via gadgets. But then may not be "interested" in learning in regular classroom ways. So there is that drawback, too. To it and technology. However, our home is a techie home, my Hubby is in the tech field, and we have tech gadgets all over the house. And in Elementary school at my kids' school....starting from Kindergarten the kids have Computer class.
BUT my kids, learn the "regular" way too.
Because, "learning" is holistic. It comes from what a parent teaches them, as well as what they learn in school. And the learning is then, DIVERSE. Which is the best way, for a kid or anyone, to learn. Learning does NOT only come from, apps or computers or iPads.
So, please don't think, that only learning by tech gadgets, is going to be the ONLY way and the best way, to "learn."
Because learning ALSO comes from, INTERACTION with the parent and due to an interchange... of ideas and skills and discussions, with your child. Learning is not a one-way, street. In other words. Nor does it derive from only one source of information like tech gadgets.
AND if your child is uninterested in "technology" then fine.
No biggie.
But at some point, a kid will need to learn their way with technology.
And kids learn fast.
My kids, by the time they were 5 years old, were adept at our iPad and touch screens and computers. BUT we did not ONLY expose them to that for learning. We CONTINUALLY, even if my kids are 7 and 10 now, teach them things at home TOO, in regular, ways. Reading BOOKS, worksheets, paper and pencil, hands on activities, experiments, crafts, etc. Although my Hubby taught them computer programming, too. For kids.
Don't feel your kid is at a disadvantage. Just because all her classmates are glued to iPads or apps.
Don't feel pressured.
Your child is only going to be 4.
And they do not only learn, in school.
You can also teach her things at home too, in a FUN way.
My son went to Preschool too only part time. And it was mostly so he got some social interaction and skills. And I also taught him things at home. We still do that with my kids even if they are much older now.