J.W.
The military has no answers for you? That's ridiculous. Jet fuel is so, so toxic. I don't want to make you feel bad, just please find a way to be safe. If it was my husband's laundry, we'd have to find a way to separate it entirely from the rest of the families laundry. Like a separate washer and dryer in the garage just for his stuff. Or an outside laundry service. I know that seems extreme, but--you don't want to mess around. I couldn't sleep at night if I thought the family's clothes and bedding had traces of jet fuel on them.