My kids kinda found out by mistake.
We have Netflix and every once and a while it will cut out and then just flip back to whatever channel the TV was on to begin with.
This happened and one of the sick Entertainment shows was covering what had happened.
Instantly my oldest started asking questions.
So without too much detail, I explained what had happened and that, we were safe.
My youngest dont really connect the images with real life. My oldest kind of gets it.
I think in the wake of any tragedy it is common for people to want to bring it up, yet can be awkward to have a discussion on. We still need to connect on the issue. Especially when it is this bad.
This has turned the Holiday into a time to truly hold our loved ones near. Take time to realize that each and every life is effected by someone else. And for this reason we need to think of people other then ourselves. I think it is truly time we do something. Talking about it is not good enough anymore.
We need to show our kids we want better. It takes an honest conversation, making it a group effort.
We witnessed a group of children loose their innocence yesterday.
Every child that will hear of it and understand, will loose a bit of their innocence as well.
We parents have a new worry to add to our minds.
This is about Gun control, as much as it is about the Social awareness that needs to happen, about the dangers of the mentally ill and unstable.
More and more men and women are coming back from War zones. Not receiving the right amount of care. Having to fight for treatment and what is due to them. We can bet that as the try and re-socialize, they will go off the deep end. At least the ones who we have already lost and just dont know it yet.
We need to make our families(kids included) and community aware of the issue and then figure out a plan of action on how to ''fix'' or understand those hurting(normally the responsible) better.
I have a hard time blaming the responsible when they are not mentally right.
Sorry I went totally off topic to some degree. This is an awful situation. I am still trying to make sense of it all.