It's obvious that she has some kind of bladder control so now you just have to direct her to the proper place.
Start telling her to sit on the potty every 15-20 minutes. Let her know that if she sits on the potty and pees she will get a reward, an M&M or Skittle. Show her the reward but she cannot have it unless she pees in the potty. It may take a while for her to give in. This is all very new and foreign to her, after all. But once she does, make it the most fantastic thing, clap for her, sing for her, whatever gets her excited about what she just did. Then give her a reward. Have her help with the clean up since it is her pee and this helps later with other clean up. But sit her down every 15 - 20 minutes like clock work. Sooner or later she will go. Even if a trickle comes out make a big deal out of it. I've had my share of stubborn ones too, lol. Don't wait for her to go sit on her own cuz she's showing you that she doesn't want to. So it's time for you to be in charge rather than her and you tell her to sit regularly and make it part of your routine. She should sit when she wakes, before and after meals and drinks, before laying down, before leaving the house, before and after everything so she gets into the new routine. As she starts to go, play it by ear if you need to continue having her sit on your time, or if she just needed to get over that first hurdle and then she will willingly go on her own. Just reward her each time she goes and she'll start getting into the routine.
K. B
mom to 5 including triplets
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