Hi N.! I bought my first house a year ago so i know exactly what you are going through. Here are a couple things that i learned. One, if you want the seller to pay for closing costs, they are legally only allowed to cover 6% of the total amount of your home. so if closing costs are over 6%, you're stuck paying the rest. That happened to us. Two, if you go HUD, it is manditory for the buyer to put down 3%, no matter if the seller is willing to cover closing or not. Also, be prepared to pay $300-$400 for an appraisal (HUD requires an appraisal) and $400 for an inspection. Three, plan on adding at least $300 a month to your mortgage payment for insurance and taxes. Forth, my mortgage company made me take an online course called The Nehemiah Online Homeownership Education Course. This course will show you how to get downpayment assistance (requirement: 600 or above credit score). Please take this last one to heart. Fifth, do not go out and spend the maximum you were approved for. I was approved for $120K but found an amazing forclosed house for $74K! My payments are a little under $900 a month and thank God for that. A few months after we bought the home, my now ex-husband had an affair and left. If i had gone out and gotten the maximum, I would have had to sell my house and move. Things happen unexpectidely. Get a home that you know you can afford on your own. Good luck!!