K.L.
Try researching and talking to a good Chiropractor. They have had excellent results with children who have chronic ear problems. There are a lot of good articles on line about chiropractic care curing ear problems. Our 5 year old son, also adopted, was having a terrible time with his ears itching. We had been to ENT's and Allergists who just gave him ear drops to treat the symptoms. We told our Chiropractor about it and he suggested we bring him in. After just one little adjustment our son stopped digging at his ears. A good Chiropractor will explain to you how the adjustment might help and should tell you that with a child, they only need a couple of adjustments to solve the problem. Believe me, I was skeptical at first and the ENT dismissed it but the bottom line is that the problem has been fixed now without drugs and without surgery and without pain! It's worth a try. I'm not sure where you live but up in the Statesville area Dr. Jeffrey Payne is who has helped us. He's very honest and very good. Good luck.