In Need of Help ASAP PLEASE!!!!!!

Updated on January 06, 2010
R.W. asks from Euclid, OH
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Hello Mothers I have a major question to ask you. I am the mother of twins who are now 2. Over the Christmas break the twins have gotten way off schedule, everyone has with Christmas and New Years.With family here they would keep the twins so I could get some rest but they would not make them go to sleep or take a normal nap, they would let them take a nap around 5 or 6 in the evening. Now I return to nursing school next week and I cannot sleep at night. The twins will keep me up until 3 sometimes a lot later at night so my plans to wake up and get the up earlier in the morning never works because I would have to try to deal with 2 very active children on only a few hours of sleep and I don't trust myself to do that. How can I get them back on a schedule without it killing me? PLUS I have been sick and so sleep deprived that I am suffering from headaches.
Please help me out.

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C.W.

answers from Indianapolis on

What always worked for us was waking them up early, don't let them sleep in late. Obviously they will be tired from waking up early then hopefully be ready for naps at an earlier time and there again if the nap doesn't come until later, wake them up, don't let them nap long. You've just got to start moving everything to earlier than what they've been doing. Yes, it makes for very cranky, tired, whiny kids, but which is worse a few days of that or living with this messed up schedule. We also had twins so I totally understand when schedules are messed up, it is really hard.

L.R.

answers from Cincinnati on

Hi R.
I used to have the kids miss their nap for a couple of days to try and get them back into their routine. It will be a little trying for you but hopefully the kids will get back into their normal routine.
Sounds to me you are a little run down. Having kids can certainly take it out of you - especially over Christmas.
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I wish you luck. Happy New Year.

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K.A.

answers from Indianapolis on

When we get off schedule we skip the nap, too. Ideally we'd just get up earlier but I'm always so tired myself that that doesn't work for us. I have no self- discipline when it comes to waking up! If my son sleeps - I sleep (he just turned two and I'm also 7+ months pregnant, I need my sleep!). For us, one day will do the trick. We skip the nap and he's always ready for bed at a decent time. Yes, it's really rough come five or six in the evening, but if you can keep them awake and relatively happy and get over that bump, bedtime isn't too far away. But it's definitely trying. The littlest thing will set my son off when he's super sleepy. We all walk on egg shells and keep him happy until we're actually ready for bed.
Best of luck! Sleep is something I truly cherish; I definitely feel for ya!!

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A.C.

answers from Cincinnati on

I stick to a schedule very firmly. If my son is off schedule for whatever time and he cannot sleep at naptime, then I put him down for "quiet time." I put him in his bed at his normal naptime with a book and maybe a stuffed animal, and I leave him in there to play quietly for about half the time he normally naps. He does not get to nap during his non-naptime, even if he is very tired (although I may move naptime up or back by a half-hour to accommodate him). Sometimes he cries, but usually he plays until he's tired, and then goes to sleep. Then, he goes down at bedtime, and it's the same deal. If he doesn't go to sleep right away, well, then he can sit in his bed and play quietly (I don't give him toys beyond his teddy at bedtime) or cry as he chooses. Every half hour I'll check on him, lay him back down if he's up, and then leave again. Usually you can tell if a child is crying because they're in pain or because they're angry, and if your kids are angry, well, they'll be okay. Eventually, the forced schedule will get them back on track.

I have a hard time listening to my son cry (we're working with him right now because he's been waking up in the middle of the night and wanting to play instead of sleep), so I always turn on a fan or something in my room and even put my mp3-player earbuds in my ears to listen to music or something. Good luck!

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D.W.

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I would personally have them skip a nap (or take a VERY short one) over the next few days so they're good and tired and are able to go to bed at a more normal time.

We had the same problem over Christmas with travel and sleeping extra long hours in the car. We kept them from taking a good nap on Saturday/Sunday, and all's back to normal!

Good luck!

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B.B.

answers from Indianapolis on

The thing we found that worked best for us was to take a weekend, and "follow the schedule"...wake them up when you want them to wake up, have them take a nap when they're supposed to take a nap, and go back to the schedule, and do it "rock solid".

Yes, they're going to fight you on it, but after 2-3 days, they'll be "back on track".

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M.C.

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I know it sounds cruel, but the easiest way to get them back on schedule is by putting them down for their naps even when they are not tired. Put them both in bed or play pen (where ever they take their naps) at the time of day they used to take the naps before Christmas and leave them there for a while. Also try to tire them out by letting them run and being physical active before you put them down to sleep. If you do both steps and you are strong enough to hear your kids cry for a little while, you will win this battle fast and you will get your rest and peace of mind, that you need.

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