In My Dreams

Hey E.,
I've had crazy dreams about my husband cheating and I know how you feel. Being prego seems to make you dream weird stuff.
I had one about a week ago. This time he wasn't cheating he just refused to talk to me and avoided me. In my dream I was actually thinking we were going to get divorced. Not reality at all.
I woke up crying I was so upset and my husband asked what was wrong. When I told him he was really reassuring and cuddled with me.
Most of the time when I have these dreams they stick with me all day sometimes longer, but that time it was like my husband's love melted it away.
You should let your husband know that you really need reassurance after those dreams even if all he does is hold you. I hope this helps you.
Megan

Hi E.-- you are not alone!!! I had some "crazy" dreams like you wrote about from about 4 months on! I (now) have figured out that it was all subconsious (of course, gotta love hormones) I was just not "comfortable" with my changing body. I had worked so hard to get into shape, and have my hubby drool over me whenever I walked into the room to feeling bloated, fat, big belled- all the joys of pregnancy that we are suppose to experience-- yeah right! =) I didn't talk much to my husband, more took it out on him and pushed his buttons about him having an affair-- in reality, just hormones, pregnancy psychosis- whatever you want to label it as. I would advise to continue to express your feelings to your hubby- maybe even give him advise on what makes YOU feel special so he can comfort you in those ways when you don't feel like "yourself"
Hope that helps-- again, you are NOT alone!!!!!

I have had those crazy prego dreams!! You just got to keep telling yourself it's only a dream. One of my pregnancies I dreamt my husband was cheating. It was awful. The last pregnancy I was the cheater and that was worse! The best thing about the whole thing is we would never cheat on eachother no matter what. Remember its only a dream.

Having strange dreams about your husband cheating on you while you are pregnant is completely normal (as are very strange sexual dreams). I had them all the time when I was pregnant and it is all about the hormones. I can recall being very angry with my husband because it all seems so real when you wake up but you just need to shake it off and remember its just a dream!

I have dreams like this all the time but they were very real when I was pregnant sometimes I would wake up from them be crying or angry with my hubby and he didnt really even do anything I have even slaped him for it because the dream was so real every cell in my body felt it was real. I still have vivid dreams I call them participation dreams sometimes I wake up exhausted.

I have had 3 kids. When I was pregnant with two of them I would have dreams like that too, just one or two. What I think help was talking to him about them. He took it in a very nice way, because he made me feel those dreams would not happen. He told me,I was too special for him and that even if my body changes that made me more atractive to him. He was more loveable, express to me how important it was for him with me having his child.

It made me feel very special, and the dream was just a dream.