P.V.
Hi K.,
I was in a similar situation with my exhusband's family. Not only did they drink a lot, but they also smoked and though they knew not to smoke around my babies (and blatently made jokes about how they couldn't do anything around my kids), it killed me that they wanted to hold them. I had to ask them, repeatedly to wash their hands, which they didn't do very often, if they wanted to touch my babies. They were offended a lot, but it got to the point that I didn't care anymore. My ex didn't help much either, so I felt I had to stand up for my babies. I would do it all over again. People can drink and smoke all they want, but when it comes to my kids, my rules come first. If they don't like it, that will be their problem, my kids are still going to be safe in my care!!
Best of luck to you and your baby!!!