Hi Jennifer! Well, I'm going to give you some advice a bit different from others. Last January I was suffering from the Minnesota winter blues and just "had to get away!" (All you moms know what I mean!) My daughter was 2 years and 3 months old at the time, though we have taken her overseas traveling, this was our first big Disney experience in mid February, 2007. I booked a timeshare through e-bay (yes, I took a risk, but it was the best experience ever). We had a beautiful two bedroom, two bath, fully equiped villa for only $300 for seven nights - beat that! We rented a car and therefore shopped at a local grocery store, cooking our own breakfasts and dinners and packing our own lunches saved big on $. I, too, highly recommend purchasing a couple of books - the best one is one already mentioned (but be sure to get the "with Kids" version - The Unofficial Guide to DisneyWorld - WITH KIDS. Read it well before you go and it will help you organize your days. Before this trip, the only Disney characters my daughter knew about were Nemo and Winnie the Pooh. So we though that the Animal Kingdom would be a good intro. IT WAS FANTASTIC. We followed the advice of the book and got there at opening and headed straight back to the saffari "ride" - WOW is all I can say! Oh and yes, we drove to the parks, as it was nice to be able to leave on our own schedule and not wait for buses or other transportation. We spent one day at Animal Kingdom, hung around the pools at the timeshare, went to an awesome (if not a bit unusual) petting zoo another day, thought about SeaWorld, but didn't go, and then saved Magic Kingdom for near the end. It too, was great. And I do agree with other writers, you could easily spend two days here. We arrived again at opening - which is really a great experience (you'll need to see it to understand) and again headed to the back of the park. Our daughter is a thrill-seaker, so she LOVES the rides - at least those she could fit on (she's pretty tall, so she got lucky on most). Waits weren't particularly long since mid February is sort-of "off" season - though one Disney Cast Member (employee) mentioned it's the high-season for strollers (meaning there's a lot of youngters and preschoolers). Oh, and on the subject of strollers, we opted to take our own as we also drove to the parks. I'm glad I did, as I'm used to it and so is our daughter. Besides, once you finish seeing a show or getting off a ride, it's like looking for a needle in a haystack!
Anyway, I could go on and on, but all I can say is go with the flow, keep your patience, and realize that this trip is for the kids - parents, we don't get to enjoy vacations until their pre-teens, right?
Feel free to send me a note if you have any other questions. Oh, and one more thing - maybe we'll bump into you. We just booked another trip this February and leave Minneapolis on the 22nd! Hope to see in the most magical place on earth!