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I have been going to the same dentist for 20 years. Dr. Christopher Forte, in Brookfield, is very mild mannered, professional, thorough, newly remodeled awesome waiting room - like sitting in a comfortable family room. He is also a dad to two sons (who are teens by now. I have always been amazed at how he gives pain-free novacaine shots (sorry!) My children like him a lot too, and have been going since they were babies (I have a teen and a tween). They also have t.v.'s positioned in front of every chair. Minimal waiting in his waiting room - he does not over book!
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The best thing that you can do for yourself is prepare. I have a friend like you and I accompanied her to her Dentist. She was also given Valium to calm her nerves. Talk to the dentist, in advance, to let them know that you have this fear so that they can help you.
Good Article.
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It is so important to go to a dentist - the same plaque that builds on your teeth - builds on your arteries. If you don't take care of your teeth, you will have greater health problems.
Best of luck to you.