On that note, everyone's body is not the same. I had an IUD after giving birth to my daughter and I had a cycle EVERY month and it was 3 times worse than before I got the IUD. I had an extremely heavy flow, my legs cramped really bad, my breasts were sore. My leg cramps got so bad that I was at the doctor all the time, so finally my gyno just removed it. He put me on some BC pills. All of them had some type of effect either on my blood pressure or my cycle. So I haven't taken a pill since Dec. 3, '07. The last time I had a cycle was in March '08. I have been having pains for a couple of years now, in my breasts and down there. I've been to 4 different specialists for the pains and have had 2 minor surgeries and still no answer or relief. I don't have the pains constantly but when they come it's awful (they don't last long-good thing). The gyno told me that if I wasn't "trying" to have a baby then not to worry about not having a cycle, but that's a NATURAL part of a woman's life, so I disagree with him; however, no one else has been able to give me an answer either so I've just stopped worrying about it. That may not be good, but the only thing I'm getting as a result of going back and forth to all these doctors is BROKE so I just pray for my healing. I'm sorry I didn't have much advice, but you're not alone in this. There are several of us. I hope you get some answers, better ones than I did. Keep me posted on what happens.