ok here os the deal i'm feeling like the first time i ever had sex. the pain. if i walk or sit i have this sharp pain and when i pick up my 2 year old it gets sharper. is anyone else having problems like this . about 2 mths ago i was getting this pain after sex and it would lastabout a week. my dr. check me and said everything was fine and now today it has been most of the night and i have not had any sex in a few weeks (poor husband) lol i told him i was at the do not touch me part. i'm going to sit in a warm bath and see if that helps but if not i don't know what to do. CAN SOME ONE HELP ME OR DO I NEED TO CALL THE DR. AND SEE IF HE THINKS I'M NUTS!!!!!
well i decided to call the dr. this morning and see i also have this condition called IC (bladder problem) and my OB exam. me today and said everything was closed and i'm not ready to have the baby and then he did a culture and it was neg. they told me to take it easy and take tylenol as needed. i go back on the 2nd and then i will be going everyother week. trish the nurse said i had to keep the baby in for atleast another 6 weeks (COUNT DOWN) i don't want a baby in 6 weeks i wan to go atleast to the 38 week mark (which would mean 8 weeks) my husband has no clue how soon she will be here so i had to break it down for him
I'd go get a second opinion from a doctor at a different practice. Maybe a woman, who's been pregnant and can understand your concerns firsthand.
Hello B., your are not nuts...you are probably carrying low and well most likely not alot of room for hubby....I went through this after all of my kids were born and found out that I needed to be tacked up...you have to realize that there are alot of changes going on and sometimes they are not always for the best. Also with this being your second child, well how to say this, the first one got in places and did things and left scar tissue and now your daughter has found them and is getting in there and the pain can be devastating!!I would suggest that your husband take it really slow and easy and use lubricant...if you still can't take the pain then I hate to say it but he will just have to deal with it! It isn't your fault or anything you or him did wrong, it is just a fact of life sometimes....also try not to pick your son up anymore then you have to because that also tears the scar tissue and baby I am here to tell you it hurts like well hell!!! Try a hot bath and also while your in it try pushing your daughter upwards...try to get her up as high as you can, that can help and get your husband to get some rub your belly with warm lotion and to help you to get y'alls daughter to relax as much as you can......I hope something I have said will help you, D.
When I was pregnant with my second child I really couldn't have sex either. My partner was going to deep. My doctor told us to slow down the motion and not go into so deep. If I help you any I'm happy just thought I might share that with you.
I had the same pain with my second child. All it was was the stretching of the ligaments. I thought something was wrong because I could not even walk without having sharp pains but everything was fine. The baby is just getting bigger and trying to make room. There really is nothing you can do for the pain but count down the days for delivery.
