T.L.
If you find a nice church or garden, like The Little Chapel in the Woods at UNT in Denton, or a nice hotel then you don't need flowers. Only have your own bouquet (try to use another flower than a rose) and have the brides maids carry a single rose or a lily each. Have an early wedding with the reception in the after noon. Don't serve dinner. Have nice hors d'oeuvres, cake and champagne toast.
http://www.twu.edu/tour/greenhouse.asp
http://www.twu.edu/tour/little_chapel.asp
I used http://www.theknot.com/ to plan and budget my wedding and its free. It give local venders as well as great tips for cost cutting.
http://www.theknot.com/ch_article.html?Object=AI990406150...
Congratulations,
TLee