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Keep it simple and just try to have the day filled with things that she loves to do. Make sure the food you serve is food that she can eat (ex. no grapes, chips etc). When my son turned one, I set up a bench in my yard and when all the guests came, I made sure that they each sat on the bench with my son and I took their picture with him. I had a "Happy Birthday" banner above the bench. They made great keepsakes for the end of his babybook. I made doubles of the pictures and used them for Thank-You cards also by writing a short message on the back to each guest that came. Make sure that the day is about making her happy, not about throwing some impressive party. :)