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I wrote asking the same thing and went on all of those websites and if you have the money go for it. I also am not big on the idea that they have to "accept" you before you can join. A really good place is Baby Bungalow on Fri. they have free play time from 10:30 am to 12pm. It's a very clean place and not one of those places you have to run around after your kid the whole time. Everyone that works there is really friendly too. Since you have a 3 month old I know they have a bunch of sign language, music, and just mommy classes that are very reasonbly priced. They're # is ###-###-####. Hope this helps.