Sounds like you are frustrated with trying to meet everyone's needs after a long day of work. I am not sure what your husband's diet restrictions are, but maybe you can just keep some turkey burgers or veggie burgers in the freezer for him and make whatever you want for you and your son. I know it's hard to make more than one meal, I do it many nights because my husband is such a fussy eater but it's probably less frustrating to fry a turkey patty up than what you are going through now. I have no idea if any of these suggestions will work with his special diet or not but there is turkey bacon for club sandwiches or BLT's, Laura's Lean makes a 4% fat beef burger that maybe is okay with his diet (typical ground round is 85/15) so you could make sloppy joe's, taco's or meatballs from it. (With taco's, it's easy to use half meat, half beans.) I have made turkey meatloaf (adding onions, red and green peppers, worchestershire sauce and dijon mustard), fish is very high in protein (if you don't like fish, try something mild like tilapia with a cajun seasoning), add spinach to risotta to up protein and iron, zucchini pancakes (with salsa for your husband/salsa & sour cream for you and your son) is good. I do hope some of this helps, I think meal planning for different diet restrictions is very difficult. And please, have whatever you want a couple of nights a week and just make him a turkey burger - it might ease your stress.
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Sounds like you are frustrated with trying to meet everyone's needs after a long day of work. I am not sure what your husband's diet restrictions are, but maybe you can just keep some turkey burgers or veggie burgers in the freezer for him and make whatever you want for you and your son. I know it's hard to make more than one meal, I do it many nights because my husband is such a fussy eater but it's probably less frustrating to fry a turkey patty up than what you are going through now. I have no idea if any of these suggestions will work with his special diet or not but there is turkey bacon for club sandwiches or BLT's, Laura's Lean makes a 4% fat beef burger that maybe is okay with his diet (typical ground round is 85/15) so you could make sloppy joe's, taco's or meatballs from it. (With taco's, it's easy to use half meat, half beans.) I have made turkey meatloaf (adding onions, red and green peppers, worchestershire sauce and dijon mustard), fish is very high in protein (if you don't like fish, try something mild like tilapia with a cajun seasoning), add spinach to risotta to up protein and iron, zucchini pancakes (with salsa for your husband/salsa & sour cream for you and your son) is good. I do hope some of this helps, I think meal planning for different diet restrictions is very difficult. And please, have whatever you want a couple of nights a week and just make him a turkey burger - it might ease your stress.