L.H.
Okay - I know exactly how you feel. My daughter is 2 - she stopped breastfeeding in May of this year and believe me - it WASNT her idea. I tried everything but what worked was telling her that it went bad. Then - I put a little baby orajel on my nipples (no it didnt make them go numb) but my daughter went to nurse (after I told her that it went bad) and when she put her mouth there, she pulled away and just looked at me and said yucky. I told her that they went bad - so of course she tried the other side (make sure you do both and she cant see you doing it) and it was bad too. Believe it or not - she never tried again. Of course - YOU have to be strong too because I really wanted to wash them off and let her have it because I took comfort in her breastfeeding too - but I stayed strong and she even went as far as to tell everyone who was listening that they went bad and were yucky. OH - and um - make sure you wash them off before any hanky panky - your boyfriend would appreciate that - or you can just sit back and laugh at the face he makes - your choice. LOL
Good Luck