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Oh T., I feel for you, family is tough. Why stress yourself, if you all don't get along take a breather you shouldn't be forced to be around people you don't care for even if it's your mother in law, life is too short to be unhappy and besides your children know when your stressed. You said your husband is a "mama's boy", does he take her side over yours? If so, I would remind him that he has a family and you are the woman he made a commitment to and his mom and sister in law make you crazy, it's not fair to put you in an uncomfortable situation, regardless of who it is, I have had many ups and downs with my in laws and my husbands attitude is, I am his wife my son and I are his family, no questions. I have always been a mommy's girl until I got married 4 years ago my mom had such a hold on me that it was putting a strain on my marriage. I have "cut" the strings myself, the reason I did this is because, life moves forward and I couldn't fight it anymore I am a wife and mom and I have a responsibility to my family, I have learned to have boundaries, and that this is my life and I can't make everyone happy, just the people who matter the most and more importantly people who make me feel good about myself and people who care about my feelings. I hope this helps. What I can tell you is that I don't have any I mean any DRAMA in my life, due to having boundaries..