Bless your heart, twin boys. Unfortuntaley, your mom is right, their days and nigth are mixed up because before when you slept, your belly was still and relaxed and they could move around more. When you were walking around and talking it soothed them to sleep. They will adjust, but at this age, it is going to be a little while. Be prepared to be totally exhausted during these next few weeks. I would get a couple Miracle Blankets, not the generic ones or plaing blankets, these will last you at least 6 months and are totally dummy proof and baby can not wiggle out of them. Start trying to figure out their routine, do they sllep for four hours at 5pm until 9 or 10? Even though you don't want to keep that schedule, go with it...you are reinforcing their need to have a long sleep. And SLEEP when they sleep. Regardless, get your rest, you will feel better and will have a better milk supply which will in turn get them to drink more and sleep longer. Breastfed babies need more feeding too because the milk digests quicker, because it is easier on their tummies. It is good for them, but harder on mom. Eventually, when they have developed a good routine of a few short naps and one or two long ones, you can push them back. My DD would sleep from 5-10pm every night, after about a week of this, I gave her a bath to keep her up until 5:30, then in a week or so, I moved her to 6 pm, etc. At 15 months, she would sleep from 9am until 1 pm, I first wanted to wake her up, but instead I wwent with it, she wasn't cranky and we slowly moved the nap up by going outside or doing activites and now at 2 she sleeps from 11:30a until 2:45 pm. That is SO nice. During the night, when they wake, keep the lights down, place a soft cd..over and over, play it every time they are tired, this will help so much when they are a little older. Now I can play 30 seconds of our nightime CD ( Praise Baby) and my daughter is asleep, no matter where we are. Nurse the baby a little, and in the middle of the feeding when they are almost asleep, change the diaper ( since babies always pee when they eat, there is no sense in changing him before feeding), then when they are a little more awake, finish the feeding and let them fall asleep nursing. This way they learn to only wake when they need to eat, to go back to sleep after they have eaten and you will get a little more milk into them because of the interruption in the middle. To get them on the same schedule, try gently waking the other twin, when you are almost doen feeding the first one. Swaddle them and put them side by side in the same crib. They will appreciate each others company and the breathing will help them sleep better. You can always put them in cradle swings if you are having a hard time. Try pacifiers, too, it helps soothe and reduces SIDS risk. Please feel free to email me privately if you want to talk or call me. I have four kids and have cared for dozens of newborns for the last 20 years.