NONSENSE!
Children are not lazy, and if she could learn, she would. They did not teach her the way that she needed to be instructed, and they did not identify what was going wrong. That was the schools responsiblity.
She should never have been held back, she should have been evaluated to find out why she could not learn the way they were teaching. You have been taken advantage of. They held her back to keep her from being in third grade and to delay her from showing her educational need by failing the OAT's, which would have been the proof you needed over a year ago to show educational need and get her evaluated on into services that would help her make progress. This is so incredibly common.
Write to the Dublin school districts special education director and request a special education evaluation because you suspect she has a learning disablity and there is an educational need for services. Further, tell them that in class interventions have been unsucessful and she has been held back one school year without sucess. Tell them that you expect for this evaluation to be completed within 30 school days of recipt of your consent to evaluate. You further expect to be contacted and to have a meeting to give your consent for evaluation within 10 school days of the receipt of your letter.
When you meet, you want a full IQ test, and testing in all areas of academic acheivement, including full reading assessment, and all the subtest areas of writing and written expression. You want her speech and langague evaluated, you want an occupational therapy assessment, including visual motor and visual processing, and you want full curiculum based testing with complete grade levels in every area, including reading, spelling, writing, math, science and social studies.
Tell them you want to begin a reading intervention program now, because RTI, response to intervention, does not require that she qualify for services first, and you would like the intervention to begin for reading imedeately. You should request an orton gillingham based, alphabet phonics program. Every child can learn to read this way, so it makes no difference what her disablity is. She has experienced reading failure, and you want intervention now.
This is not your daughters fault. Quit blaming her now. Read "The Myth of Lazyness" by Dr. Mel Lavine. You will be astounded by the issues that can cause a child to be just like yours, and none of them are lazy.
Go to www.wrightslaw.com and start learning about advocacy. I can help you get pointed in the right direction. I think that Dublin has a parent mentor on staff, I will see if I can locate the name for you.
Write these letters today, fax or email them tomorrow, and ask for confirmation that they are recieved.
Next, find a Neuropsycholgist to do a private evaluation for you. We have used Colvin (he is out North on 315, just past 270) he got us in once very quickly. This will not be inexpensive, but you need to have your own evaluation to keep this school district honest, they have not done the right thing so far. Do this tomorow too. It will be worth it to you.
Smart kids with processing issues look just like this, and these teachers have seen it before. Shameful.
M.