M.P.
Hi Sassy,
It sounds like you could benefit with some search engine optimization (aka SEO). There is an entire industry for this type of work but I can refer you to two sites with great resource centers if you want to learn to do it yourself.
The most important factor in getting better rankings (which means coming up in google searches when someone searches for what you sell) is getting "in bound links". That basically means that other websites post a link from their website to your website. Isn't there a place for mom owned businesses on this site? If there is, add your URL!
If you want to email me your site, I can take a quick look and see if there are any other obvious tips I can pass on specific to your site.
M.
Links:
http://www.highrankings.com
http://www.seomoz.com