M.G.
Here is a thought-- to celebrate her life, and life in general have a live plant/tree as party favors. You can purchase inexpensive plastic pots at a craft store and decorate them. Start some seeds now so that the sprouts can begin before the party. I like the idea of sun flowers since they are such a bright and cheery flower. Maybe she has a plant that is significant to her. Ask everyone to take and the sprout home and plant in celebration of her new life--ask them to send you digital photos of their plants and put these in a scrapbook along with photos from the party for her. Alternatively, try the same thing by just passing out decorated seed packets if you don't have a green thumb. Happy planning.