Added per your SWH:
Okay, TTT, TIME OUT. Your post is going to get pulled with your SWH if you scream at people.
The answers to your post are your own fault. You said nothing in your original question about living overseas. You said NOTHING about this being an overseas kinder. You said nothing about kinder1 being for children who have completed their 3rd birthday by April 15th.
If you write here again, be clear about your circumstances. NO ONE in the US sends their children to kinder at 3 years old. You are writing to a group of mothers in a different country. Yes, there are people who live overseas who write in here. But this is US based. If you don't know how US schools are run, either familiarize yourself, or TELL the moms here that you live in Dubai when you write, and tell us that you don't know much about US based schools.
You think you don't have to prove to anyone that you aren't a troll? Well, all you'll get is crappy answers if you don't do better than you did before. I'm telling you that you have to ask questions in a way that lets us know you are for real, or you won't get the help you want.
For the other mothers here, take a look at this link:
http://www.gemskgs.com/contents.php?pageid=916&parent...
It's an example of what she is talking about.
Now to your problem. The school your child goes to is a very different concept than US based schooling for this aged child. Sitting at a desk and looking at a board is NOT done for 3 year olds. Indeed, it goes against child development guidelines for this age. Surely it is not the LAW that she has to go to kinders 1 and 2 in Dubai? Can you take her out of school and wait at least a year, or two? Can she go to kinder 2 when she is 5 years old, instead of to first grade? At the VERY earliest in the US, kinders don't start school until a very OLD four, or even a very old five. Most moms never consider an older four anyway. The kids can't sit still at the age of four. We have a choice to send them a year later if we feel that they are not mature enough to manage kindergarten at 5.
She needs a class where children PLAY to learn. She needs structure - morning play, clean up, reading, clean up. Lunch, rest, afternoon play, cleanup, that kind of thing. This is what we call preschool in the US. Child learn through play. At home, and to a certain extent, in preschool, they learn their numbers, alphabet, colors, vocabulary words, etc. They prepare their little bodies for writing by playing with playdough, clay, picking up little beads, using manipulatives, etc. They learn spatial concepts by putting together puzzles, train tracks, Duplos, etc. They NEED this kind of learning, TTT. Sitting at desks looking at a board is NOT the way 3 year olds learn.
Making her go to a school that uses THIS method of teaching will just teach her to hate school. I don't know what your options are in Dubai, but please at least try to find out. First, know the LAW. If you don't HAVE to send her, DON'T. Second, look for a real preschool. Ask to observe the way they run the classes. The children should be grouped by age - 3 year olds, 4 years, that kind of thing. There should not be any desks or a board. The kids should have stations around the rooms with toys, books, places to sit, like pillows, etc. They should have all kinds of different activities.
When she is a few years older, she will be better able to cope with real school. But not now.
Original:
Sorry, but I call BS. Don't write on here about a 3 year old going to kindergarten, sitting at a desk looking at the board. It's a lie.
The way to help you is to tell you to behave yourself and don't come on a mom's site and lie to us.